Coat the wings. In a large bowl, whisk the potato starch, baking soda, and salt until combined. Add the wings and toss, pressing the mixture into them so each wing is fully and evenly coated.
Dry in the fridge. Place the wings on a wire rack set over a baking sheet, making sure none are touching so air can circulate. Refrigerate for 6 to 24 hours, until the skin feels very dry.
Make the ranch. Mix the mayonnaise, sour cream, buttermilk, dill, chives, onion powder, garlic, salt, and pepper. Add a splash of water to thin it. Cover and refrigerate.
Make the blue cheese dip. Mix the sour cream, mayonnaise, buttermilk, garlic, and salt. Crumble in the blue cheese, mashing some against the side of the bowl with a fork or your fingers. The dip should be creamy with pops of cheese, not all the chunks sunk to the bottom. Cover and refrigerate.
Heat the oil. Heat the oil in a heavy-bottomed pot to 300–320°F (150–160°C). Monitor it with an instant-read thermometer throughout.
First fry (cooking stage). Fry the wings in batches of about 6, leaving visible space between them. Stir right after adding them so they don't stick, and keep moving them. Adjust the heat to hold 300–320°F. Fry for about 6 minutes, until cooked through but not browned. Drain on a rack or plate, keeping drums and flats separate. Repeat with the remaining wings.
Make the Buffalo sauce. In a saucepan over medium or medium-low heat, whisk the Frank's RedHot, butter, honey, paprika, cayenne, and garlic powder until melted into one smooth sauce. If it splits, whisk hard for 15 to 20 seconds to bring it back together. Set aside.
Make the dry rub (optional). Whisk all dry rub ingredients together if you prefer a dry coating.
Second fry (crisping stage). Raise the oil to 375–400°F (190–205°C). Fry all the wings at once, moving them around so they don't stick together. Pull them when they are golden brown and crisp, and you hear the first crunch. Color matters more than exact timing.
Sauce and serve. Toss the hot wings in the Buffalo sauce (or the dry rub). Serve right away with ranch, blue cheese dip, celery, and carrot sticks.